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I Told My Secret: A Book for Kids Who Were Abused

NCJ Number
115771
Author(s)
E Gil
Date Published
1986
Length
16 pages
Annotation
This booklet for abused children explains the nature and dynamics of child abuse and answers common questions abused children have about their victimization and procedures involved in the official response to the abuse.
Abstract
Various types of abuse (physical abuse, sexual abuse, neglect, and emotional abuse) are first defined. Abusers are noted to be usually adults or bigger kids and can include relatives as well as strangers. Some questions and answers are discussed as to why people abuse children, why abused children are usually sworn to secrecy by abusers, and the importance of telling a responsible adult about the abuse. Suggestions for persons to tell are doctors, teachers, counselors, principals, nurses, police, other kids' parents, friends, a minister, or a hotline for kids. Other questions and answers address the psychological effects of abuse and its exposure, such as guilt, shame, fear, and a desire not to be touched at all by anyone. Questions and answers pertaining to the family after the abuse is exposed relate to the future structure of the family, steps for stopping the abuse, friends' reactions, and the child's possibly having to be placed outside the home. The booklet also answers questions about court procedures, therapy, and what the future holds. 6 illustrations.